After marriage human will discover child....

All expecting mothers are scared stiff by the thought of giving birth, even those who don´t admit it, I´m sure! During the nine months of waiting well educated swedish midwifes take care of the check-ups and they really do their best to calm and motivate the mothers-to-be. The first thing you do when you find out you are pregnant is?... Buy tons of books and magazines about childbirth, pregnancy and health. You read every detail about pregnancy and child care, but skip all the pages (often with colorful pictures...) concerning the actual delivery of the baby? Instead you concentrate on breathing, relaxing, and all the different ways to control the pain during giving birth... But most of all the things you have been reading are completely gone once you step into the delivery-room at the hospital...
I , for one have read all the books, listened to all the midwifes tips and even went to the classes, feeling confident and completely informed - but I came to the hospital totally unprepared anyway...

This is no information in order to teach you anything, it´s a story from and about life.
Women love to tell each other about their experiences in the delivery-room. Maybe it´s a way to get over it and go ahead? Personally I have had two very different experiences and like to share it with anyone who might be interested.